How To Love

Love

 How to love ? It appears to be a question too simple and common to receive our serious attention . But it's not .It demands a little more careful thinking.It is a greatly important issue. But before this question one should ask a few far more essential questions such as : What is love ? Why do we really need to love ? What is the purpose of loving someone or something? What can be the best object of our love ? By getting answer to these basic curiosities we will move to the question of how to love .

Love is joy 

It's a kind of pleasant feeling which fills our mind and heart when we like someone or something . Everyone wants it . It is real wealth. It makes its host happy and content as well as active and caring . It expands the boundaries of hearts . It inspires a self effacing attitude . It fills everything around us with colours   . With it flies the time with utmost speed . It makes us forgetful of the boring grossness and pains of life . It is a quality of Divine who creates , maintains and destroys to create again a new and more beautiful world with His loving hands . It is a quality of our real self which is , essentially , in its original nature , a part of the Divine .

Limited love limited joy , unlimited love unlimited joy 

We are happy to see a person , place or thing that we love . We are happier to see more people, places or things that we love . We are happiest if we love everyone, every place and everything without exception. A limited love gives limited joy but an unlimited love gives unlimited joy . 

 The good news is this that it can be learned and spread

If it is clear that love is joy so who will not wish to possess it ? Everyone wants joy so everyone will have to learn to love . This is also clear that with a little conscious effort and practice we can learn the art of love which can make our living fantastic . It takes only an aware attitude . If we inspire and teach others as well to do so , it may promote a culture of love and happiness. 

The purpose of Love

As is true with other human activities , love also aims at happiness and joy .

How to Love

1. Know as much as possible about the lovable and loved ones
2. Know and care about their needs , pains and pleasures.
3. Don't miss an occasion to show your love by doing something for them .
4. Be generous. Don't be miser .
5. Have less expectations . Be ready for more sacrifices.
6. Know that the fruit of love is joy and right at the moment it is born in your heart it starts blessing you .
7. Never get complacent . Always treat it as fresh and new .